If you are a parent, you know that it is important to be a role model for your children, meaning that you need to behave in the same way you want them to behave.
This very simple principle can also be applied to business contexts, when leaders need staff to behave in a particular way for success. Simply put, positive role modelling is key to shifting the culture of an organisation – in fact, you could argue that this is the most important thing of all.
First things first: personal responsibility
The quality of your people’s behaviour starts with you. This may be difficult to hear, but it is the truth. You can choose to blame your colleagues for doing the wrong thing and displaying inappropriate behaviours if you wish. This will probably make you feel better as it puts you in a position of innocence - the blame is on the others. This may be okay for a while, but there is a downside to this mindset: you will not be able to change anything. Furthermore, by seeing yourself as the victim, you will continue to suffer. The positive flipside of this attitude is personal responsibility: you focus on your sphere of influence, you look at the things you can control, and you start taking charge and making things happen.
Personal responsibility forms the basis upon which you can develop positive role modelling. It puts you at the centre of the change.
Let me tell you a story. A friend of mine was complaining that her career was stalling, because the business partnership she was in was not working the way she wanted: her partners “were not listening, were self-centered and lacked collaborative spirit, and were not delivering on their promises”. Needless to say, with such a mindset, my friend was going nowhere. After some coaching, she realised she saw herself as the victim in the situation, and she decided to take responsibility. She broached the subject of trust with her partners, she triggered discussions on expectations and ways of working, she offered leadership and executive development activities, she started sharing how she felt, and took the lead on building a more collaborative partnership model. Guess what? She became a positive role model for the partnership and the rest of the staff, and things started to shift. All it took was a shift in her mindset, increased personal responsibility. My friend is now an awarded businesswoman, recognised as expert in her field, and a role model for many of her staff.
Being a role model - “The change starts with me.”
You need to be a positive role model for your team, your peers, your manager if you want things to change. Here are a few tricks on how to become a positive role model.
Role modeling is like anything else: the more you do it, the easier it becomes. It may take you outside of your comfort zone at first, but soon it will become second nature. Not only is it inexpensive, but the upside is also worth every effort. Just think of your own role models to see what I mean.
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